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JOSEPH DAVID ALFORD
1843 AR - 1910 OK


Published in AAFA ACTION, Issue #47, Winter 2000 , pages 60-63,

Joseph David Alford - A Black Sheep?
By Lee Ann Evans Turner, AAFA #0020

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Left: Wallace Dean Tumer, AAFA #0020, Descendant
Right: Lee Ann Evans Tumer, Author
Lee Ann Turner is the wife of Wallace Dean Turner, AAFA #0020, the great grandson of Joseph David Alford - grandson of Dave's daughter Dona Alford. This is one of the many cases where the "Alford" spouse is making a significant contribution to the Association.

She has bachelor and master degrees in education from Henderson State College. She taught school in Arkansas for 12 years - taking some time off for her children. In 1984 she went to Alaska and taught four years on Evans Island at Chenega Bay for the Chugach School District. From there she transferred to Whittier on the mainland where she taught for ten years before retiring. While they were in Alaska, Wallace worked for the schools in other than teaching positions.

Lee Ann is now working towards a writing career. She edited the Pike County, AR Archives and History Society Newsletter,
The Gems, last year. She attended a writing workshop sponsored by the Artesian Arts League in Prescott, AR last year, and she has been working on a romance novel - off and on - for the last several years.

Those who attended the AAFA meeting in either Paducah, KY or San Antonio, TX will remember Lee Ann and Wallace.

--- Editors


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Was Joseph David Alford (alias Dave Alford) the black sheep of the family, a villainous rogue, the role model for a steamy historical romance novel, or simply a poor soul - tom apart emotionally by war? A war that took the life of his father, set brother against brother and cousin against cousin? Did he have difficulty dealing with all the emotional stresses of the Civil War and the loss of his young wife which followed soon after? Perhaps Dave was a little of all the above.

Born January 4, 1844 in Monroe County, Arkansas, Joseph David was the oldest of the six children of David Winston Alford and Mary Ann McMenas. Several families of Alfords are listed prominently in Goodspeed's History of Arkansas as respected members of the community: pastors of churches, deacons in the churches, farmers, and doctors. The family spread over Pike County, up into the hills around Kirby and further into Montgomery and Garland Counties near Mount Ida and Hot Springs.

Not much is recorded regarding Dave's early childhood. The Pike County courthouse and existing records were destroyed by fire in 1895, leaving census records, a few abstract deeds, some legal depositions from military pension applications, and few other written records.
1850 Census of the United States
Thompson Township, Pike County Arkansas   16 Nov. 1850
P. 185   Dwelling No. 203    Family No. 203
________________ ______ ___ ____________ _____
D. W. Alford age 26 M Farmer bp AL
Mary Alford 25 F bp TN
David 6 M bp AR
1860 Census of the United States
Antoine Township (Redland P.O.) Pike County Arkansas   18 Aug. 1860
P. ???   Dwelling No. 511    Family No. 511
________________ ______ ___ ____________ _____
D. W. Alford age 36 M Farmer bp AL
M. A. 35 F bp TN
David 16 M bp AR
L. L. 8 F bp AR
Wm. 4 M bp AR
C. 2 M bp AR
M. E. 5/12 F bp AR
Elizabeth Bixby 63 F bp MO
Margaret Bixby 20 F bp AR
There were many changes in Dave Alford's life between 1860 and 1870. There are a couple of conflicting family legends about this era of his life. One family line tells that he was walking alone at night and was beat up and left for dead in the road ditch. The version by Linda Meek's [AAFA #0316] line is that he was returning home one night stone drunk, fell, and hit his head, knocking him out. Supposedly one of the Jordan girls found him and took him home to nurse back to health. This would have been somewhere around 1860. The pension records state that he first married Margaret Jordan "when he was not much more than a boy." This was in 1861, when he was about sixteen years old, he married Margaret Jordan. Two years later Dave enlisted in the Union Army. According to his claimant's affidavit, Dave says, "I was about 18 years of age. I was by occupation a farmer, height about five feet six inches, dark complexion, color of hair dark, dark gray eyes."

Dave served in Co. B (Private) 4th Regt. Ark. Calvary Vols. (Col. Fishback) as a scout. While in the service at Dardanelle, Arkansas, in February 1864, he took sick, resulting in Typhoid pneumonia, which he said affected his liver and heart the rest of his life. Dave was honorably discharged at Dardanelle, Arkansas on March 28, t864. Joseph David's father, David Winston Alford, also enlisted in the Union Army on the 17th day of November 1863, in Co. B Arkansas Mounted Infantry as a Sergeant. Only two months after Joseph David's discharge, his mother Mary Ann McMenas Alford gave this report of David Winston Alford's death: By 1870, Dave and Margaret's family had grown, as evidenced by census records.
1870 Census of the United States
Antoine Twp. Redland P. O. Pike County Arkansas
P. 7   Dwelling No. 12    Family No. 12
________________ _______ ___ ____________ _____
Joseph Alford age 25 M Farmer bp AR
Margaret 26 F bp AL
Delilah 8 F bp AR
Sarah E. 4 F bp AR
Martha L. 2 F bp AR
William W. 10/12 M bp AR
Martha Jordan 21 F bp AR
Mary 2 F bp AR
In the house next door, dwelling No. 11, lived Elizabeth Jordan, age 25, b. AL, her sister Delila age 21, also b. AL and five children: Ann 12, Nancy D. 10, John W. 8, William 3, and Martha J. age I. Elizabeth (Betty) and Delila (Puss) were sisters to Dave's wife, Margaret.

Margaret died in 1873. According to Dr. Abner A. Alford, a first cousin of Dave Alford, some kind of a fever came up. Three of her family died within 30 minutes. There were two children that died at the same time. All were buried in the Jordan Graveyard (Redland Cemetery) in Pike County, Arkansas.

Dave married secondly, Elizabeth (Betty) Jordan Pyburn, widow of John W. Pyburn. In her deposition for pension application testimony, Lorinda L. Alford who was a full sister to Joseph David Alford, declared:
1880 Census of the United States
Antoine Township Pike County Arkansas
P. 30   House 226    Family 226
________________ ______ ___ ____________ _____
David Alford age 34 M Farmer bp AR
Elizabeth 35 F wife bp AR
Sarah E. 15 F dau. bp AR
Martha 13 F dau. bp AR
William 10 M son bp AR
Eliza 7 F dau. bp AR
Joseph 5 M son bp AR
Asa 4 M son bp AR
Emma 3 F dau. bp AR
Joseph Jordan 15 M nephew bp AR
Mary Jordan 11 F niece bp AR
Pink A. Jordan 7 F niece bp AR
This is where devising family group sheets for this family with census records gets tricky. If Elizabeth is giving the information and says that Joseph, Mary, and Pink are her nieces and nephew, this is true. (It is also true that they are Joseph David's children by another woman.) Sarah E., Martha, and William were listed as children of Margaret and Dave in the previous census. They are nieces and nephew of Elizabeth, but listed here as son and daughters. Since Eliza was born about 1873, she could be either Margaret's or Elizabeth's. (Did Margaret die in childbirth with Eliza? We don't know.) Joseph Jordan was also known as William Joseph Jordan and later changed his last name to Alford. To really confuse the matter more, he was also known as "Gunge" Alford.

It is interesting to note here that family stories also tell of Dave having "two Jordan women abed with child at the same time." Linda Meek has determined that one of those children to be her ancestor, Mary. She was born to Martha Ellen Jourdan April 14, 1868. She is listed as Mary Jourdan in the 1870 Census, living with Martha Jourdan in the same household with Dave and Margaret. Linda has not been able to determine who was Puss (Delilah) Jourdan's child yet. Pension records state that both Puss and Ellen died before Dave married his second wife, Bettie Pyburn. (We may never get all the children parceled out to the correct mothers. See the Robert Alford family lineage book for our best guesses.)

Family legend also tells of yet another woman named Rose who Dave was reported to have a child with, but we can't find written record of her. There are also stories of a woman and child that were burned in a prairie fire, also undocumented.

In the same 1880 Pike County census, Martha Alford, age 36, (not to be confused with Martha Anthony Alford) and Mary Alford, age 10, were living next door in the household of Pleasant Henry. The house on the other side was occupied by Dave's widowed mother, Mary Ann, and two of her sons, William M., and James A. (aka Jim Alford).

William M. Alford, Dave Alford's brother, testifies that Dave lived with Bettie up until a while before she died. In a personal interview in July 1992, Susy Alford related a family story about how Dave Alford was helping an old widow woman (no one could remember her name - possibly Mrs. Henry Anthony) move. They drove by Dave's house and his wife, Bettie, came to the door and told Dave that she was sick and did not think she would live until he got back. He told her to "shut her damn mouth and go back to bed." She did, and died before he returned. She was buried in the same cemetery as Margaret, David's first wife. In a pension deposition, Elizabeth Flemons (a neighbor) said, "He left Bettie on her death bed and ran off with Martha Anthony."

John Pyburn (Bettie's son by her first marriage) stated, "He deserted my mother and eloped with Martha Anthony. Mother remained on the homeplace after he deserted her and she died within a short time." William M. Alford said that Dave, Martha Anthony and her mother, Tennessee Anthony (Mrs.Hemy Anthony), Ben Cummings and a crowd of them went off together in the spring or summer before Bettie died in September, 1887. John Couch (a neighbor) said, "A month or two before Bettie died, Dave stole Martha Anthony away from Abner Alford and took a trip with her through Louisiana and other places. Bettie died while they were gone. Dave and Martha returned married." James A. Alford recalled differently. After the death of Elizabeth, Dave went back to Montgomery County, and on August 17, 1888 he and Martha Ann Anthony were married near Mt. Ida, Arkansas by I. F. Fitzgerald.

Martha Anthony was born July 29, 1868 in Hot Springs, Arkansas. She also had a colorful past. The investigator in the pension record states that she "bore a very bad reputation for morality prior to her marriage to the soldier. She had two illegitimate children before her marriage." One of these children was reported to have been Dr. Abner Alford's. Dr. Alford was Dave's cousin and a son of Madison Ewing Alford. Abner was also married at the time. Dr. Alford admitted in the deposition that, "The child might have been his, but her brother-in-law and a fellow named Ray also had been fooling with her." One source says that Martha lived with Dr. Abner Alford from the time she was 12 years old. However Martha is with her parents Henry and Tennessee Anthony, four sisters and a brother a few houses down from Dave and Elizabeth in the 1880 Pike County census. Of the two children mentioned before her marriage to Dave, one child died at birth and the other lived to four or five years of age.

Mr. Jones, the Special Examiner traveling around taking down depositions in the case, was not very charitable in his observations of the families. He made some rather disparaging remarks about Martha Anthony's mother (but that is another story) and about the truthfulness of others. Mr. Jones seems to be something of a dandy as evidenced by these excerpts of his report. Dave seems to have settled down after he married Martha Anthony. They evidently moved to Muddy Fork, another part of Pike County, and lived there before moving to Oklahoma. We have yet to discover the reason for moving to Oklahoma. Was it for trying to obtain Indian rights or to claim more land (or just to escape another "difficulty")?

Martha gave this deposition in her claim for widow's pension: The 1900 United States Census for Pike County Arkansas, Muddy Fork township confirms the statement for children born up until that time, also listing Ace Alford, age 25 and Ellen Alford, age 27 (Dave's children by former marriages).

Dave and Martha moved with their children to Sawyer, Oklahoma in Choctaw County where Dave died April 8, 1910 of pneumonia and is buried in the Sawyer Cemetery. The 1910 United States Census for Choctaw County, Oklahoma shows Martha there with her children, two sons-in-law and two grandchildren. Next door, Ace Alford was living with his sister Margaret E. and her husband James A. McCabe, a four year old son and James' mother, Elizabeth A. McCabe. Martha Anthony Alford died March 6, 1918 and is buried by her husband and some of their children there in Sawyer.

There is a wealth of information waiting to be transcribed in the civil War Pension Application records. There was probably a wealth of information deliberately omitted. Martha A. Alford Flemings admitted to H. L. Elliott, Special Examiner, that she knew her father left his second wife, Elizabeth, and ran off with Martha Anthony, but she did not want to tell about her father having done such a thing. She did not mention it because Mr. Elliott did not ask her about it directly.

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Joseph David Alford
Jan 4, 1844 - Apr 8, 1910


This story has all the ingredients for a great historical novel, maybe a saga to rival Alex Haley's Roots. We have here pioneers settling a new land, sex and passion, subterfuge, violence, heartbreak, patriotism, and families being torn apart by circumstances or emotion. We even have the possibility of comic relief with Mr. Jones in his three­piece, pin-stripe suit teetering over a flooding, swollen creek on a slippery footlog with his briefcase, after leaving his shiny new Ford stuck in a mudhole. (Probably being led on a wild-goose chase through the hills trying to find people who really didn't want to talk to him.) The best part of the story is that it is real. This is not a novel. This is a real family ... our family. Not always perfect, not always nice, sometimes harsh-just human.



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